feat(photos): community film strip uploads + admin moderation

Backend
- photos table + upload storage under DATA_DIR/uploads (magic-byte sniffing,
  no multipart dep, SVG rejected, wx exclusive writes)
- POST/GET /api/photos, GET /api/photos/:id/file with nosniff + sandboxed CSP
- admin routes (ADMIN_EMAILS allowlist): list, delete one, clear all
- identity-keyed rate limits (login 20/15m, signup 5/h, upload 60/h)
- cookie gains Secure when the request is https (via trustProxy)
- /api/auth/me now 200 {user:null} instead of 401 when signed out

Frontend
- landing strip section: signed-in users upload straight from the reel,
  guests get a /app?auth=1 link
- /admin page: grid of uploads with delete + clear all
- nginx: nosniff / X-Frame-Options / Referrer-Policy, forward
  X-Forwarded-Proto so the API can mark cookies Secure behind TLS

Tests: docker/backend test/security.mjs (45 checks)

docker/backend/package.json

@@ -7,7 +7,8 @@
   "scripts": {
     "build": "tsc",
     "start": "node dist/server.js",
-    "dev": "tsx watch src/server.ts"
+    "dev": "tsx watch src/server.ts",
+    "test": "node test/security.mjs"
   },
   "dependencies": {
     "better-sqlite3": "^12.11.1",